How To Make A Guy Love You Like Crazy In 10 Simple Steps

When talking about how to make a guy love you like crazy, then it becomes important to note what the starting point is. We’re going to assume here that you know the guy, you are close (in proximity) to him, and now you want him to fall in love with you. If that is indeed the case then read on and apply our ten simple steps to know how to make a guy love you like crazy and see if being adored and worshipped in the relationship is really all that it’s cracked up to be!

It seems the feeling of love can be triggered in a rather systematic way as well. According to a very interesting article published in New York Times titled “No. 37: Big Wedding Or Small?” if you sat down with a perfect stranger and exchanged these specific set of 36 questions, by the end of it you would have shared enough intimate details to trigger a feeling of either love or intimacy. Check out the “36 LOVE Questions” that actually work in the video below:

1. Get Noticed

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Step one of how to make a guy love you like crazy, is very simple. Be sure to catch his eyes and give him a longing gaze when you do or even a wink if you’re feeling a bit flirtatious. This will alert him to your existence, and make him want to come over and approach you. Be sure to be at all the spots he is regularly seen at and you can then work your way into his life.

2. Look Sharp

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Step two of how to make a guy love you like crazy is a no-brainer. You don’t want to be dressed in your sweat pants and loose t-shirt unless you’re VERY sure that’s your best look. But you also don’t want to be wearing your best or most revealing outfits as that will be coming on a bit too strong right at the beginning.

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3. Be A Good Person

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Unless you’re still in college, the kind of person you are will definitely have an impact on the kind of person you’re looking to attract, and given that you’re looking for that special someone to love you like crazy, he must be a good person too. Show off your kind, considerate and funny side and he will surely be intrigued.

4. Mingle And Then Disappear

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It may be tempting to spend all night talking about your darkest secrets with him once you finally get chatting, but leave all of the information exchanges to nice little pieces of conversation and texting sessions. Keep him wanting more and don’t give away every detail about yourself right at the start.

5. Ask Him About Himself

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Step five of how to make a guy love you like crazy, is just basic common sense. Just like anyone, guys will feel at ease discussing things that they like, what they do and where they hope to be soon and how they plan on getting there. This will not only give you some information about him, but will keep him conning back for more, especially if you’re a good listener.

6. Flirt

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When you make conversation, be sure to grab his attention by flirting with him. A light touch here, lingering eye contact there, it’s all good.

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7. Play The Field

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The guy cannot know that you are smitten by him or he will lose interest (which is basically what not to do to know how to make a guy love you like crazy), so make sure that you are seen alongside other guys and show him that you have your own life. Make other plans during this time as well, and stick to them, so that he knows that you are not free to hang out whenever he likes.

8. Make Him Feel Special

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When the two of you do end up hanging out, let him know that you feel slightly more inclined towards him and show him a good time when you are near him. Play to your strengths and show off your skills, character or talents by planning appropriate dates.

9. Ask Him For His Help

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Step eight on how to make a guy love you like crazy is a pro that’s a bit of a cliche, but it is what it is. Men have a deep need to provide and nurture, so be sure to take his help on something that isn’t overly complicated or too much of a hassle or time leech for him. Bonus points if it’s something that you will require help with several times over or on a weekly basis. Show him your gratitude by either surprising him with movie tickets, taking him to his favourite food joint, baking him a treat etc.

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10. Show Off

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Supposing things seem to be flagging a little or the two of you have had a little disagreement, then you need not fret. You have already established that you have your own life and many other men are interested in you because you have a wonderful personality and all of that good stuff. This is when you pass him by wearing that very sexy dress you’ve been saving, just make sure the occasion demands it though. He’ll know exactly what he’ll be missing if he lets things slide any further.

And that’s all you need to know in order to get your man to not only be interested in you and go out with you, but also to appreciate you fully and fall crazily in love with you!

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