How Should A Wife Treat Her Husband – 7 Helpful Hints

Once you get married, you are showered by so many wonderful feelings and emotions and also several expectations. The first and foremost responsibility of every wife is to treat her husband well. Everything comes secondary and all else falls in place if this basic duty is well handled. So, how should a wife treat her husband? Is there a guideline or a rulebook? Well, the answer to that second question is both Yes and No. While there is no ‘user manual’ to how a wife should treat her husband, there are certain basic ‘musts’ and ‘shoulds.’ Let’s take a look at what these are.

1. Respect

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You need to respect your husband for who he is, what he does, his choices, dreams and everything about him. There is absolutely no escape from this one! Respect is the basic foundation of every husband-wife relationship. You need to show respect not just in front of others but also in your personal space and in your mind as well.

2. Love

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While it may sound obvious, treating your husband with love includes loving everything about him. There might be certain disparity or conflicts in nature but it is necessary to focus on the things you love about him. When you treat someone with love, it becomes easier to make a two-way channel; something that is intrinsic to marriage.

3. A Friend, Guide And Support

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Your husband needs to be treated like the best friend that you will have for life. He should be the first person you turn to when you need guidance or support. Yes, you may have your girl pals and childhood buds, but your husband must be your first friend and the friend you can rely on completely.

4. Care

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You need to care for your husband. Care for his needs – emotional, mental, physical and all. To have a caring nature towards your spouse strengthens the connect and poses you as someone he can trust.

5. Gentle

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You need to be gentle in your actions and words. Harsh actions and words create a rift; an impact so deep that it can really mar your relationship. Nothing fruitful ever comes from being harsh and brash. In marriage, what you give is what you get. So if you are gentle and soft, that’s what you will receive too.

6. Priority

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Your husband must always be your first priority. Whether you want to sulk, have fun, need a shoulder, always consider your husband as the first point of contact and priority. You cannot let other people and things be more important!

7. Team Mate

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Treat your husband as your team mate and not as someone above or below you in any aspect. Marriage is all about working in a team and you have a team mate for life. Build on your team and as your team grows you will just have more and more players to support and tend for.

All the above-mentioned points are basic to every relationship but even more so to a married couple as these are what form the foundation for a lifetime. As a wife, you need to be proud of your husband and be the constant source of inspiration and motivation that drives him to be a better man. You need to be the home, the shelter and the warmth that every man seeks. While these are the basics, do you have any more insights or suggestions on how a wife should treat her husband?

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